Thursday, April 17, 2014

8 Great Reasons Why Swirling Black Single Mothers SHOULDN'T Bring NEW MEN Around Their Children!

Dateline San Francisco
Written By Dee Dee Russell

This is for my Black USA single mothers who are swirling. Or want to swirl let me apologize to you first since your Mother and older women in your life dropped the ball and didn't give you THAT  Talk About Swirling: NO HOME DATES WITH NEW MEN! Fact is many of you swirlers may be targeted by swirling child predators...

Wednesday, April 16, 2014

(If the doorbell's not ringing for you don't answer it!) Sick of your swirling couples selfies cause your man looks BORED

Dateline San Francisco
Written By Dee Dee Russell

 Yes yes yes women off all races tend to gush coo and regurgitate the story of their brand new  love force feeding the gory details to friends family and us the public its a brave new world  we have insiders access to information that should be kept private, namely your couples selfies.

 Being a sexist womanist bohemian I ride for Black women so let me be the one to tell you Sister: deeply edit your photos before you publish them for the world to analyze and yeh we're talking about how bored your man looks and how your man looks as though you are passing acquaintances instead of 'husband to be'.

 See, there is a very clear trend in online swirl communities - young ladies wanting approval from the hive about snagging an Other Brother pages of bored and uninterested men being clutched and squeezed by deliriously smug happy and  naive BW - she brays HES THE LOVE OF MY LIFE and he's like I don't even know her middle name. Why is it on Me to point out this embarrassing obviousness?

Edit. Your. Swirling. Couples. Selfies. Before. You. Submit. Or. Publish. Make. Sure. You. And. He. Are. On. The. Same. Page. As a UNIT. Or. At. Least. He. Looks. Like. He. LOVES YOU. Not. Just. Tolerating You. He's a man not a new designer pocketbook!

Friday, April 11, 2014

Sexist Womanist Satire For Karyn Washington: WHO is the biggest enemy of the Black Woman?

Dateline San Francisco, CA
Written By Dee Dee Russell

Rest in peace  Karyn Washington   I am grieving your suicide ...with ANGER. I KNOW how it feels to have self absorbed evil apathetic creeps WATCH AND LURK AND NOT EXTEND A HAND OF KINDNESS as you STRUGGLE WITH THE LOSS OF YOUR MOTHER!! Oh yes, Black USA is HARD on its NONCONFORMIST WOMEN who suffer from POST TRAUMATIC GRIEVING! Those cold hearted Black bastards will look you in the eye see your pain and IGNORE IT. This satire is for you babygirl cause you discovered exactly WHO IS THE BIGGEST ENEMY OF THE BLACK WOMAN IS!  WE are our sisters keeper!! Cause we nonconformist BW already KNOW that BLACK MEN ARE NOT PROTECTING US!

Saturday, March 29, 2014


Enjoy this list of blogs and webpages that I feel you may find useful. If you would like to be added to the list go ahead and send an email at

Swirl and Black Women Empowerment Writers
Black Female Interracial Marriage aka EVIA
The World Of Mrs. Glamtastic
Sojourners Passport

San Francisco Websites
Fun Cheap SF
SF Gate

Beauty (I buy most of my cosmetics here!)
Afro Bella

Progressive Black Women
The Happy Black Woman

Relationship Webpages and Resources
Baggage Reclaim
Evan Marc Katz

Wednesday, March 19, 2014

5 Reasons Why Chasing Men Doesn't Work Out In The Long Run For Black Women Swirlers!

Dateline San Francisco, California
Written By Dee Dee Russell

Yes this is for my Black women. Some of yall are too extra due to being under-parented and dependent on men to become your father figure or father for your kids. Listen sister, I don't believe in fairy tales and neither should you. 

Chasing Other Brothers is for needy and ignorant birds. 
Men are not blind!! They see you. They see your profile. They see your Facebook.

5 Reasons Why Chasing Men Doesn't Work Out In The Long Run For Black Women Swirlers

Monday, March 17, 2014

Mental Health Monday! Mick Jagger's girlfriend killed herself cause he cheated if she was a Black woman she would have just abused her kids or overate into obesity!

Dateline San Francisco
Written by Dee Dee Russell

For most women here in the USA the choice of mate is one of the most important choices you will ever make. For Black Women its doubly so as the majority of us (but not me!) CHOSE to voluntarily have children outside of marriage so I was shocked to  read that Mick Jagger's white girlfriend  of ...12 years!  hung herself but you don't need to be a weatherman to know he cheated on her and she got depressed and chose to end her life.

Sunday, March 9, 2014

Mental Health Monday - Black USA women are depressed NOT angry

Dateline San Francisco, California USA
Written by Dee Dee Russell
THIS IS WHAT 40 YEARS OF BLACK MEN ABANDONING THEIR DAUGHTERS HAS DONE TO USA BLACK WOMEN: Mass out of wedlock births, mass obesity, mass sexual molestation of Black girls! Lets not forget 30 years of RACIST/COLORIST anti-BW hiphop!!

Tuesday, February 25, 2014

E -Tethering - How Other Brothers String Black Women Along With A Few Lousy Text!

Dateline San Francisco
Written By Dee Dee Russell

I came across this great article by dating and relationship coach Jonathon Aslay that sums up very nicely the lazy way wussy online dating dudes keep their hooks in women - its called E -Tethering!

Understand! Men  do this  to women of all races period and in the swirl world sisters are exchanging notes  too many are puzzled or foolishly accepted being E -Tethered. Thats not dating its time wasting.
"It's all activity, not action."

Friday, February 21, 2014

Black Women Crying Wolf: When Naming Your Trolls Goes Wrong

Dateline San Francisco, California USA
Written by Dee Dee Russell

Notice I never name trolls here? Notice you don't see me crying on blogs or Youtube over trolls?
Crying Wolf is sounding the alarm when you don't need it. Long ago ...a boy herded sheep and told the town a horrible lie, that a wolf was coming!
Citizens got upset and rallied but wolf! And the boy cried wolf again! The citizens rallied ready to tear that wolf to pieces but of course there was no wolf only a little boy manipulating the citizens.