Saturday, February 15, 2014

I won't lie to you! If you have several kids and want to swirl you need to read this don't listen to anybody else!

Dateline San Francisco
Written By Dee Dee Russell

We keep it real at BWWOB and have convos before the subject hits the mainstream this meme is from the summer of 2013! 

                                     At the center of my satire is THE TRUTH.


YOUR CHILDREN ARE YOUR NUMBER ONE FOCUS! THEN focus on relationship vetting/and swirling with Other Brothers.

As a sexist womanist bohemian I cannot feed a fantasy/lie or coddle about how easy it is for single mothers to get a White man! This ain't Sex In The City even child-free white girls got the blues theses days.  I coach child-free BW to stay that way till marriage cause many (not all but enough) men see another man's child as a liability!

IF YOUR KIDS ARE THRIVING DOING WELL IN SCHOOL AND YOU HAVE A JOB BILLS ARE PAID, ETC. ALL YOUR RESPONSIBILITIES ARE TAKEN CARE OF?  ...THEN GET YOUR SWIRL ON.

Otherwise, I as a womanist and friend to BW say SIT YOUR BUTT AT HOME TILL YOUR KIDS ARE DOING WELL AND YOUR BILLS ARE PAID! How can you date if your kids are failing and you're in 24/7 struggle-stress mode??

2 comments:

  1. My husband is mixed race, but one of the things he liked about me was that I had no kids. I really think that black women should wait for marriage before having kids to end the single mother stigma that's plaguing our community.

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  2. Hi Maria and here's another CONGRATULATIONS on your marriage, think I gave you congrats on Facebook we were wondering where you were for awhile. I do my best to suggest that child free young ladies stay that way till marriage/traveling/education.

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